Thursday, April 8, 2010

We have Lydia!!!

We have our precious baby girl! We arrived at the orphanage around 9:00a.m. When we arrived we saw a few children outside playing then we were taken through a beautiful lobby into a meeting room. We had been thereabout 5 minutes filling out papers when in walked one of the care givers with Lydia. She is so beautiful and so petite. She looked so tiny still very much like a baby. She cried when they tried to put her down but when I broke out the snacks and sippy cup she stopped crying immediately.She loved the Kashi honey sunshine cereal and water. She let me feed her a few bites and she ate the entire bowl full quickly. We were there around 15 minutes and it was time to go. When I took her in my arms she cried but when I gave her more snacks she stopped. When we walked out the doors she started crying again. She was so scared. When we got in the van she buried her little head into me and didn’t say a word. She just stared at us. I sang to her and kept saying “boo koo” it’s okay. My heart was breaking for her. Then we had to stop and get photos taken at a photo shop and she started crying again. I don’t blame her…we had to walk up a set of dark stairs into a strange looking place for our photo. Before getting back in the van Mark went to a store and bought her a pack of Ritz crackers and a carton of milk. She ate until she couldn’t eat anymore. By the time we had reached the hotel she was smiling at us, playing with her toys and learning to trust us already. She was all smiles and giggles the rest of the evening. She has the cutest laugh and when she gets excited she laughs and screams at the same time.

I could go on and on but I will just give you a few highlights:


*She has personality with a capital "P"


*She is a very good eater


*She is a mommy’s girl right now (It's 4 a.m. and now she is daddy's girl, he is giving her Kashi cereal and milk)


*She has a sense of humor and likes to make us laugh


*She is soaking in all the new sounds, sights, textures, colors,…


*She is very bright and talking in Chinese but already saying Mama, dada, milk, baby, bye-bye, hello, …


*She is so petite but feels heavy to me. I haven't weighed her yet or tried on her clothes but I put 24 month P.J.’s on her and they were too long.


*She has a strong will and knows what she wants She went to sleep last night around 7:00. She was so tired but I could tell she was scared to go to sleep. She kept looking around the room and then at me. She cried when I put her in her crib…but she actually like her crib. So I sat her on the bed with her favorite book and we talked and then I said “do you want to lay beside mommy”…she let me take her in my arms and we put our heads on the pillow nose to nose. I sang to her and she fell asleep in my arms.

It’s now Friday morning and we have the weekend free. I think we are going to venture out and do some sightseeing. Olivia and Nana are doing well. They are enjoying their time together. What a blessing it is to have my precious mother-in-law with us. She is a jewel! Enjoy the photos and thank you for your continued prayers.



Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Almost time!

It’s hard to put into words the emotions, thoughts, fears and anticipation you feel when you’re one hour away from driving to the orphanage to meet your child. Will she cry, be silent, let me hold her,will she be afraid or will she be sick? She will be three in May and she is leaving behind everything familiar in her life…her care givers, China sisters, food, language, everything! She can’t possibly understand all that is waiting for her. How I long to hold her tenderly, lavish her with kisses, wipe away her tears, meet her needs, see her smile and of course put a big pink bow in her hair.

Dear Father I pray you will calm her heart and mine. Let her know that she is safe and loved and that something good is happening in her life. I pray for her little heart and mind to know quickly that we are her forever family…I am her mommy, forever and ever and I will never leave or abandon her. Thank you Lord for your promise to never leave or abandon me…you are a loving, good and kind Heavenly Father and I love you. You never cease to amaze me!

We're in Beijing!

Praise the Lord we made it to Beijing! When we checked in at Charlotte the lady that helped us was from Cambodia and is in the process of adopting a little girl. She said "oh you need more room" and gave us an upgrade from Economy to Economy Plus. I was so overcome with gratitude I hugged her neck and my eyes swelled with tears. Then while waiting in the security line she came back over and said I have taken care of your flight home...and handed us another upgrade to Economy Plus. Those extra 5 inches may not seem like much but after 8 hours of flying and 4 to go it's very nice. God is so good! We've all been awake since 1:00 a.m.! Remember we are twelve hours ahead of you. It's now 4:00 a.m. and we're getting ready to walk over to a 24hour McDonald's for breakfast. We leave at 8:00 a.m. for the orphanage to meet Lydia. We're all so filled with anticipation. I will send photos tomorrow. Thank you for your prayers!

Monday, April 5, 2010

Tomorrow...we are going to China!

TRAVEL SCHEDULE:

April 6 Charlotte to Chicago to Beijing (15 hours of flying )


April 7 Arrive in Beijing


April 8 Meet our daughter in the morning


April 9 - 16 Paper work and sight seeing in Beijing


April 17 Fly to Guangzhou


April 18 - 22 More paper work


April 22 Mark flying home

April 23 Mommy, Nana, Olivia and Lydia begin our journey home
Guangzhou to Beijing to D.C. to Charlotte

April 24 Arrive in Charlotte at 11:59 a.m.

Thank you for remembering us in your prayers!

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

WE ARE GOING TO CHINA!

It is with great joy that we announce we are going to China! Our daughter is in Beijing and will be three years old in May. Because of the new adoption rules we cannot post her photo until she is officially ours. We will leave for China April 6 and Lydia Faith will be in our arms April 8.

I must also tell you that God is still a God of miracles! After four hours on the phone trying to use our FF miles for tickets, talking to every agent possible, trying to rearrange appointments in China, purchasing 4 round trip tickets for $3000, not being able to purchase a one way ticket home for Lydia, and so much more…finally….at the end of myself and all human resources… at 6:00 p.m. Monday evening God provided four round trip tickets to China and a one way ticket home for Lydia…all with FF miles! If you have ever tried to use FF miles you know this is unheard of this late in the stage. So today we continue to rejoice ...declaring the goodness and greatness of the Lord. What a loving and caring Heavenly Father we serve!

Thank you for your prayers as we continue our adoption journey.

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Chick-fil-A

Mark completed his 6 weeks of training in Atlanta.
Olivia and I attended his graduation.



Mark and I attended our first Chick-fil-A seminar
and all I can say is... WOW...
we are so blessed to be a part of this wonderful family.


Our daughter loves Tim Hawkins. I laughed so hard it hurt!
Have you heard the new Chick-fil-A song?

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Valentines Day ~ Father Daughter Dance


Olivia and daddy ready for the Valentine's Day Father Daughter dance.


~...and they did dance... ~



~ ...fun with friends... ~


Mark and Olivia had heart shaped chocolate chip pancakes in bed...
...served with love by mommy!